A Little New Understanding of >Love at First Sight< [对>一见钟情<的一点儿新认识]

  • 心理学认为,一见钟情现象的出现大多是因为女孩子在他人身上找爸爸的影子,男孩子在她人身上找妈妈的原型。弗洛姆在他的《爱的艺术》中这样写道:造成神经机能病态爱情的基本条件是>相爱的<一方或双方都牢牢地抓住父亲或母亲的形象,并把他以前对父亲或母亲怀有的感情、期待和恐惧成年后都转移到>所爱者<身上。这些人从来没有超越儿
  • In positive psychology, the phenomenon of love at first sight appears mostly because the girl looks for the shadow of father on the other person, and the boy looks for the mother's prototype on her person. In his book >The Art of Loving<, Fromm writes: The basic condition that causes a neurotic morbid love is that one or both of the >beloved< friends firmly grasp the image of the father or mother and put him in the past to his father Or mother's feelings, hopes and fears are all transferred to >beloved< as adults. These people never surpass children [Automatic translation]

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Author:Yanping Zhang
Parent Title (Chinese):Popular Psychology [大众心理学], No. 11 (2017), p. 41.
Document Type:Articles
Year of first Publication:2017
Release Date:2019/03/04
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