TY - JOUR A1 - Qing, Luo T1 - Love is the Most Complete Understanding of the Child [爱是最完满地认识儿童] JF - Family Education[家庭教育], No. 20 (2022), p. 1. N2 - 为了真实地发现另一个人,更确切地说,为能消除幻觉,消除我对他存有的不合理的歪曲印象,我必须客观地认识他和我自己。只有客观地认识一个人,才能在爱的行为中认识他最本质的东西。——艾里希·弗洛姆在爱的行动中认识儿童弗洛姆认为,认识是爱的首要因素。所谓认识,是深入事物的内部,在爱的行动中认识爱之对象最本质的秘密。就父母之爱而言,只有最全面、最正确地认识儿童,才能超越狭隘、盲目,服务于儿童真正的幸福。 N2 - In order to discover another person in truth, rather, in order to be able to eliminate the illusion and the irrational distorted image I have of him, I must know him and myself objectively. Only by knowing a person objectively can I recognize what is most essential about him in the act of love – Erich Fromm Knowing the Child in the Act of Love. Fromm believes that knowing is the first element of love. To know is to penetrate deeply into the interior of things and to recognize in the act of love the most essential secrets of the object of love. In the case of parental love, only the fullest and most correct knowledge of the child can transcend narrowness and blindness and serve the child's true happiness. [Translation: www.DeepL/Translator, free version, 7/2024] Y1 - 2022 ER -