TY - JOUR A1 - Anonymus 2009, T1 - Love Cannot be without the Self [爱 不能没有了自己] [application of Fromm's theories to art] JF - Learning Expo [学习博览], No. 4 (2009), pp. 52-53. N2 - 一个还不具备独立人格的人,也就是还没有认识到自我与他者的界限问题的人,是缺乏健康的爱的能力的。——弗洛姆《爱的艺术》恋爱和婚姻中人,感情困扰多多,于是,我们看到每个情感论坛都有人哀哀地哭诉,身边的朋友也不断到你这里倾诉她的烦恼和不幸。尤其是女人,总是为情所困,陷得进去,走不出来,爱走极端。 N2 - >A person who does not yet possess an independent personality, who therefore does not recognize the problem of the boundary between oneself and others, lacks the ability for healthy love.< – Erich Fromm >The Art of Loving<. In romantic relationships and marriages, people are often affected by various emotional problems. Therefore, we frequently see lamenting individuals in relevant forums exchanging their problems and misfortunes. Especially women are often trapped in love, unable to free themselves and become excessively involved in their love. [Translation: www.chat.openai.com, free version, 6/2023] Y1 - 2009 ER -