TY - JOUR A1 - Duan, Lingxian T1 - The Art of Loving: Family Education [爱的艺术:家庭教养方式] JF - Contemporary Family Education [当代家庭教育] No. 11 (2018), pp. 13-14. N2 - 人类是群体性动物,人类的群居除了满足个体对于生存的需要,在一定程度上也体现着人类本质上对爱的追求。弗洛姆在《爱的艺术》第二章中就提出爱是对于人类生存问题的解答。>爱是指热烈地肯定人的本质,积极地建立与他人的关系,是指在双方各自保持独立与完整性的基础上相互结合<。爱源自克服孤独,寻求生存,与他人相结合的需要,最终在社会化过程中走向自我完善,自我实现。马斯洛指出,爱的需要在其生命早期得到满足的人,在安全、归属以及爱的满足方面,比一般人更加独立,更可能发展出深情、自尊、自信、仁慈、慷慨、无私、宽容等品质。 N2 - Human beings are group animals. In addition to satisfying the individual's need for survival, human beings also reflect the pursuit of love in essence. Fromm in the second chapter of >The Art of Loving< suggests that love is the answer to the question of human existence. >Love means to affirm the essence of human beings and actively establish relationships with others, which means that they are mutually integrated on the basis of their independence and integrity.< Love comes from overcoming loneliness, seeking survival, and the need to combine with others. In the end, it is self-improvement and self-realization in the process of socialization. Maslow pointed out that those who need to be satisfied in the early stages of their lives are more independent in their safety, belonging, and satisfaction of love than the average person, and are more likely to develop affection, self-esteem, self-confidence, kindness, generosity, selflessness, tolerance, etc. quality. [Automatic translation] Y1 - 2018 ER -