TY - JOUR A1 - Ni, Ying T1 - Fromm's Ideal Family Education Ideology and Its Contemporary Enlightenment [弗洛姆理想家庭教育理念及其当代启示] JF - Journal of Suzhou College of Education [苏州教育学院学报], No. 1 (2010), pp. 102-104. N2 - Fromm puts forward his ideal family education ideology in his masterpiece Arts of Love. Father and mother play different roles in family education, whose functions are irreplaceable in the formation of children's personality, the development of children's intelligence and the socialization of children during their growth. The extreme phenomena of parent role's negligence, overdoing and confusion in the family education of our country severely curb the achievement of family education. In light of Fromm's family education ideology, from the perspective of parents' roles, family education can be improved in the ways as follows: firstly, parents should define their irreplaceable positions and complement each other; secondly, parents should not spoil children; finally, parents should perfect their personalities and better bear the responsibility of education. N2 - 弗洛姆在其代表作《爱的艺术》一书中提出了理想的家庭教育理念。父亲和母亲在家庭教育中扮演着不同的角色,在促进孩子成长的过程中,这两种角色对孩子个性的形成、智力的发展、个体的社会化都发生着不可替代的作用。我国当前家庭教育领域出现了父母角色缺位、越位、错位的极端现象,严重阻碍了家庭教育的成效。从父母在家庭教育中扮演的角色出发,借鉴于弗洛姆理想的家庭教育理念,改善家庭教育可从如下几方面着手:第一,明确父母角色,实现优势互补;第二,父母双方要把握好爱的尺度;第三,完善父母人格,更好地担当教育之责。 Y1 - 2010 ER -