TY - JOUR A1 - Bei, Yafu T1 - The New Generation's >Artistic View of the Art of Love<: Learning Love in >Strategy< and >Guidance< [新世代的>爱情技艺观<:在>攻略<和>指导<中学习爱情] JF - Brilliance [光彩], No. 2 (2022), p. 63. N2 - 年轻一代对于婚恋的态度是矛盾的。一方面,几乎每个人都渴求亲密关系,并操练着自己的>爱情技艺<:>小红书<上充斥着五花八门的>相亲攻略<,形形色色的>恋爱指南<大行其道;但另一方面,>恐婚恐育<的声音也甚嚣尘上,人们忧虑婚恋可能带来的风险,并权衡着随之而来的责任与负担。在一个>爱情横行<的年代,却鲜少有人追问,究竟什么是爱情,以及人们为何需要它。在《爱的艺术》中,埃里希·弗洛姆认为,爱是一种需要学习的>技艺<。 N2 - The younger generation has an ambivalent attitude towards marriage. On the one hand, almost everyone is eager for intimacy and practicing their >love skills<: Little Red Book is full of >dating tips< and >love guides< of all kinds are prevalent; but on the other hand, >fear of marriage and parenthood< is also rampant, as people worry about the possible risks of marriage and weigh the responsibilities and burdens that come with it. In an age of >love on the rise<, few people are asking what love is and why people need it. In >The Art of Loving<, Erich Fromm argues that love is a >skill< that needs to be learned. [Translation: www.DeepL/Translator, free version, 4/2022] Y1 - 2022 ER -