@article{Zhao2009, author = {Zhao, Qin}, title = {On the Annoyance and the >Art of Loving< by Fromm [论烦恼与弗洛姆《爱的艺术》]}, journal = {Journal of Xi'an Shiyou University (Social Science Edition) [西安石油大学学报(社会科学版)], No. 3 (2009), pp. 69-73.}, year = {2009}, abstract = {In the fields of philosophy, annoyance is almost the permanent topic. Fromm attempted to define the root of annoyance as the loneliness from the perspective of psychology. There are various ways of getting rid of loneliness, the ideal combined way of which is the mature love. It is thought that how to gain the mature love involves the following aspects: the first is to have mature personality, in other words, to have high self-recognition and creativity; the second is that human should know the spirit cleaning, namely keep attention concentrated and have brain sensible and awaken; the final is to gain the capacity of love by overcoming the self-love, and having rational belief and active activity.}, language = {zh} }