TY - JOUR A1 - Messler Davies, Jody T1 - The thin blue line of the interpersonal-intrapsychic dialectic. Commentary on papers by Gerson and Spezzano T2 - Psychoanalytic Dialogues, Vol. 14 (2004), pp. 711-732. N2 - What allows us to explain the repetitive cycles of self-destructive, self-defeating behavior that we all struggle to help patients overcome? What explains the malignancy that can infuse certain transference – countertransference relationships, often suddenly and without warning? Why do some patients come to hate us despite our best efforts? Why do we come to hate some of them? Perhaps more to the point of this paper, why do we come to hate that version of ourselves that emerges when we are with them? This paper explores these questions, examining the issues of repetition and repair with regard to our most toxic introjects – the patients' and our own. Whereas Melanie Klein helped us to understand why we come to hate that which is good in others, this author explores the complementary question of how loving that which is bad in others keeps the self innocent, good, and sane. A fundamental dissociative split in two necessary but incompatible self–other organizations is posed. With reference to a detailed clinical example, the author investigates how the evocation of intensely shame-riddled bad self representations in both the patient and the analyst can perpetuate a need to provoke, find, and sustain that badness clearly in the psychic domain of the other, blocking entry into certain necessary therapeutic enactments that may therefore fail to occur. Both self – other organizations must occur, first in oscillating moments and ultimately in simultaneous awareness, in order for the analytic work to proceed. Y1 - 2004 UR - https://opus4.kobv.de/opus4-Fromm/frontdoor/index/index/docId/33204 ER -